Work With Me & My Team
At Betrayal Shrink, our work is focused specifically on helping men navigate the impact of partner betrayal. As this work has grown, I have carefully expanded my practice to include Betrayal Coaching Associates who work closely with me and are trained in my approach to Masculine Betrayal Trauma.
My Associates understand the unique challenges betrayed men face and are familiar with the tools, concepts and processes I have developed through years of working with men after infidelity. They receive ongoing guidance and consultation from me while bringing their own experience and strengths to the work.
Whether you work directly with me or with one of my Associates, you will receive specialized support designed to help you find stability, clarity, self-trust and a path forward.
Meet the Betrayal Shrink Team
Adam Nisenson, Betrayal Shrink
LMFT, CSAT
Meet Adam Nisenson, known as the Betrayal Shrink. Adam combines his extensive clinical skills with a deeply empathetic heart in his role as a Betrayal Trauma Coach. Licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Adam is dedicated to guiding men through the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal trauma.
Jay Walker, Coaching Associate
ASSOCIATE BETRAYAL COACH
Meet Jay Walker, a Trauma Recovery APSATS Trained Coach specializing in betrayal recovery for men. Jay combines over 20 years of coaching experience with a deeply empathetic, methodology-driven approach to guide men through the disorienting shock, isolation, and challenge of partner betrayal and relational rupture.
Adam Nisenson
LMFT, CSAT
Adam's methodology is deeply influenced by his intimate grasp of the trials faced by men confronting a partner’s infidelity. Leveraging his extensive clinical background and personal insights of being a betrayal partner himself, Adam creates a supportive and understanding environment, where clients are led through their journey of healing with compassion and wisdom.
Holding a degree from Pacifica Graduate Institute with a focus on Marriage and Family Therapy, Professional Clinical Counseling, and Depth Psychology, Adam has committed his career to addressing critical issues such as betrayal, infidelity, sex addiction, and the myriad life challenges that accompany them. With Adam, the journey is not just about recovery; it’s about embarking on a path of profound personal growth and rediscovery.
Adam's Story
Standing at this crossroads, you’re not alone. I know this terrain all too well, a landscape marked by the long shadows of betrayal. It’s here that I once found myself, surrounded by a darkness that seemed to eclipse everything I once knew to be true. My own journey through the heartache of betrayal began thirteen years ago, a journey that didn't just redirect my professional life but also introduced me to a silent brotherhood of men, each bearing the raw, unseen scars of infidelity.
Trying to describe the moment my world turned upside down feels like narrating a scene from someone else’s life. The day my former spouse confessed to her affair and feelings for her acting out partner are etched into my memory with crystal clarity, even after all this time has passed. It was an experience that made me feel disconnected from reality as if the ground beneath me had crumbled away. The whirlwind of emotions that followed – grief, confusion, painful uncertainty and overwhelming anger – was simply too much to bear. It felt like mourning not for a relationship, but for the life and identity I thought I knew and had.
In the aftermath, an intense feeling of loneliness consumed me. The feelings of shame and failure as a man, coupled with the weight of expectations were overwhelming and bore down on me with a relentless force. My search for guidance only magnified my isolation. The stark realization that resources, support, and open conversations for men in my position were scarce was a bitter pill to swallow. I wasn't looking for generic advice; I needed a voice that understood the male psyche, a perspective that resonated with my experience.
Unexpectedly, my salvation came from my men’s group from the ManKind Project. This brotherhood provided me with a lifeline – a circle of individuals who shared an understanding and unspoken empathy. Without this, I might have succumbed to the silent fate that befalls many men who tread this path – stoicism, emotional stagnation, and a life half-lived.
This is why I've taken on the mantle of the Betrayal Shrink. It’s not about dwelling on the actions of my ex-wife; her choices and her journey are her own. My focus, my mission, is to offer a guiding light to other men finding their way through the darkness of betrayal. I’m here to ensure that no man must navigate this treacherous path alone.
Welcome to your journey through the labyrinth of betrayal, where every stride you take is a step towards reclaiming your strength and rewriting your story.
Jay Walker
Associate Betrayal Coach
Specialist in Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Jay Walker specializes in betrayal recovery for men, combining over two decades of coaching experience with advanced methodologies in human performance and trauma recovery. He guides men through the disorienting shock, isolation, and relational rupture caused by partner betrayal, offering a structured, empathetic pathway back to stability and purpose.
Jay holds a Master of Science in Human Performance Improvement from the University of North Texas. His specialized, trauma-informed methodology blends high-level behavioral science with practical execution, equipping clients with essential tools for nervous system regulation, healthy boundary setting, and identity reconstruction.
Jay works in close collaboration with licensed therapist and marriage counselor Adam Nisenson (The Betrayal Shrink), providing a vital bridge between clinical treatment and real-world execution. Through peer-level accountability and actionable coping strategies, he empowers clients to move beyond survival; helping them restore personal agency, cultivate deep resilience, and build a thriving future.
Credentials & Professional Training:
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M.S., Human Performance Improvement - University of North Texas
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Certified Partner Coach (CPC) Candidate - Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS)
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Associate Certified Coach (ACC) Candidate - International Coaching Federation
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Trauma-Informed Coach Certification (TICC) Candidate - Moving the Human Spirit
Work With Us
My Team Is Here To Support You On Your Unique Healing Journey.
At The Betrayal Shrink, my team and I help men heal from betrayal trauma, infidelity, broken trust, and relationship pain through specialized coaching and support created specifically for men.
As this work has grown, I’ve carefully expanded my practice to include Betrayal Coaching Associates who are trained in my approach to Masculine Betrayal Trauma and work closely with me to support men through the healing process.
From one-on-one coaching to men’s betrayal trauma groups, our work is designed to help you regain emotional stability, rebuild confidence and self-trust, and move forward with greater clarity and strength.
Whether you work directly with me or with one of my Associates, you don’t have to navigate betrayal alone. Your healing starts here.
Take a look at our combined services below:
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