Brotherhood in Betrayal

Welcome To,

A Men’s Healing Retreat for Those Who Have Been Cheated On

You didn’t come here because the betrayal was small.
You came because it changed you.

When a man is cheated on, the damage is rarely visible from the outside. What breaks first is identity, self-trust, confidence, and the quiet belief that you knew your world. Most men carry that alone. This retreat exists so you don’t have to.

Brotherhood in Betrayal is a Friday - Sunday immersive healing retreat for men who have been cheated on and are ready to face what that betrayal actually did to them, not with platitudes, not with surface-level coping, but with truth, structure, and brotherhood. This retreat is led by Adam Nisenson, LMFT, CSAT (The Betrayal Shrink) and Sam from Sam’s Healing Podcast, two clinicians who specialize in masculine betrayal trauma and men’s recovery after infidelity.

This is not a motivational weekend.
This is real work, done alongside men who understand.

Who This Is For

This retreat is for men who:

Have been cheated on and feel stuck in anger, numbness, or confusion
Are exhausted from carrying everything alone
Feel disconnected from themselves since the betrayal
Are struggling with intrusive thoughts, comparison, or self-blame
Want clarity, grounding, and a path forward
Looking for brotherhood
Are ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding
Want to understand what betrayal did to them, not just what happened

This retreat is men only and intentionally designed for men whose partners betrayed them through infidelity, emotional affairs, or deception.

What Makes Brotherhood in Betrayal Different

Most men are told to move on, forgive faster, or be strong. None of that addresses what betrayal does to a man’s nervous system, ego, and sense of self.

This retreat is built on the Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery framework and focuses on:

Safety before depth

Body-based healing, not only talking

Brotherhood as the antidote to shame and isolation

Anger as a doorway, not a problem

Self-trust as the foundation of healing

You will not be fixed, analyzed, or rushed.
You will be witnessed, grounded, and challenged to reconnect with yourself.

What We Will Work On Together

Over three days, we will explore and work through:

The Ego Wound

You're in a safe space where your feelings of shame, anger, and hurt are not just understood, but deeply empathized with. Here, you're not just another face in the crowd; you're a man whose pain is acknowledged and validated.

Boundaries and

Self-Respect

Rebuilding clarity around what is acceptable, what is not, and how boundaries are an act of self-trust, not an act of control.

Anger and the Body

Learning how anger functions as a trauma response, how it gets trapped in the body, and how to release it safely and constructively rather than turning it inward or letting it run your life.

Brotherhood and Being Seen

Ending isolation through structured group process, where men speak their truth without fixing, advice, or judgment, and experience the power of being understood.

Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers

Breaking down why your mind keeps replaying the betrayal, how trauma loops form, and how to shift from being hijacked by your thoughts to observing and regulating them.

Integration and Moving Forward

Leaving with grounding, language, and internal clarity so the work does not end when the weekend does.

What the Weekends Look Like

Friday Evening
Arrival, grounding, and connection. We begin building safety and brotherhood, introduce the ego wound, and open the space without emotional flooding.

Saturday
A full day of teaching, guided exercises, journaling, body-based anger work, and intrusive thoughts work. This is where men face what they have been carrying and begin releasing it in a safe, structured way.

Sunday
Integration, boundaries, self-trust, and clarity. You leave grounded, not raw, with a clearer sense of who you are and what comes next.

The retreat balances teaching, experiential work, movement, reflection, and group process. Nothing is forced. Participation is always invitational and supported.

What You Leave With

Men leave this retreat saying:

“I don’t feel crazy anymore.”
“I finally understand what this did to me.”
“I feel grounded in my body again.”
“I trust myself more than I have in a long time.”
“I’m not alone in this.”

You will not leave with false certainty or rushed forgiveness.
You will leave with clarity, grounding, and connection.

This Is Not the End. It’s the Beginning.

You’ve been carrying this longer than you should have. You don’t need to do it alone anymore.

Brotherhood in Betrayal is where men stop surviving betrayal and start reclaiming themselves.

Important Details

Format: In-person, immersive weekend
Schedule: Friday–Sunday
Who: Men only, for men who have been cheated on
Dates & Pricing: Coming soon

Space will be intentionally limited to protect safety, depth, and group cohesion.

Save Your Spot. Stay Connected.

If this retreat is speaking to you, trust that. Brotherhood in Betrayal will be intentionally limited in size to protect safety, depth, and real connection. Once details are finalized, registration will not stay open long.

By joining the Brotherhood in Betrayal list, you will:

Be the first to receive retreat dates, location, and pricing

Get early access to registration before public release as well as a discount

Receive updates directly from Adam and Sam as details are confirmed

Hold a place of priority for this men-only retreat

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